Through all the rush of the new nursery and school year - support your child to cope with tiredness and anxiety by trying Tatty Bumpkin tummy breathing.
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A Bit about BreathingWe breathe automatically - without thinking about it. However, as we know, our own, and our children's, breathing pattern will alter at different times of the day and if we're feeling stressed e.g. sighing in despair, panting with exhaustion, holding our breath in fear and terror.
The close link between breathing pattern and the stress response means we can have a real impact on our overall emotional wellbeing by increasing our breath awareness.
This pattern involves breathing largely from the upper chest area, using our neck, upper chest and upper rib muscles. If we use this form of breathing, we will see more movement around our upper chest compared to our lower lower rib cage area. When we are at rest, or doing light activity, we should not be relying on this pattern of breathing. Only when we exercise do we tend to also use this breathing pattern as we try to take deeper breaths.
Tummy (abdominal or diaphragmatic) Breathing
Normal breathing is also known as diaphragmatic breathing. It involves the coordination of movements between our upper and lower rib cage and our abdomen (tummy area). Diaphragmatic breathing, as the name suggests, relies on our diaphragm, a dome-shaped muscle, which separates our chest and abdomen.
When we breathe in (inhalation) - our diaphragm contracts, flattens and moves downwards, sucking air into our lungs. As our diaphragm moves down, it pushes our abdominal contents down, which forces our abdominal wall outwards.When we breathe out (exhalation) our diaphragm relaxes and air passes out of our lungs. Our abdominal wall moves upwards helping the air to flow out of our lungs. See picture below.
Abnormal Breathing Pattern
If we get into the habit of using a more thoracic breathing pattern, even at rest, it can lead to an increase in overall body tension, neck pain and shoulder movement problems.
Constantly activated upper chest and neck muscles can also increase feelings of anxiety.In addition poor coordination of the diaphragm may result in poor movement patterns and increased instability in the lower back region (lumbar spine).
Tatty Bumpkin Yoga Activity Tummy BreathingIt's helpful for both adults and children to become more aware of the diaphragmatic breathing pattern. Increased awareness will firstly help us make sure we are using the correct muscles during our normal breathing and secondly, we will be more able to adjust our breathing pattern to help us cope with stressful situations. Benefits are discussed in detail further at the end of this blog.
- As with any new exercise practice makes perfect, so try to do this exercise twice a day for short periods (with or without your child). You can then use the technique to calm your mind whenever you find your mind dwelling on upsetting thoughts or when you are experiencing pain. It's probably easier to learn abdominal breathing whilst lying down. Once you get the hang of it you can do this form of breathing in sitting or standing.
- Place one hand on your chest and the other on your tummy (abdomen). This will help you to gain an awareness of the movements of your chest and abdomen. See picture below for guidance on where to place your hands.
- Start by taking a slow deep breath in through your nose imagining that you are sucking in all the air in the room and hold it for about 5-7 seconds (or as long as you are able, do exceed 7 seconds). As you breathe in the hand on your tummy should rise higher than the one on the chest. This insures that your diaphragm is pulling air into the bases of your lungs.
- Now slowly breathe out through your mouth for a count of 5-7 seconds. As you release the air from your lungs, gently tighten your tummy (abdominal) muscles to completely evacuate the remaining air from your lungs. You should now feel the hand on tummy moving downwards. See picture below.
- It is important to remember that to take a deep breath - we need to focus on breathing in, and then make sure we have breathed out fully. Repeat the ‘cycle’ 3 – 4 times.
Tummy Breathing and Relaxation – With Your Child
- Find two toy ducks (the non – squeaky kind!) or similar toys and settle down with your child on a soft carpet or mat. You may wish to listen to some gentle music i.e. Tatty Bumpkin Relax Song see http://bit.ly/1q2kqVQ
- Start by showing your child what to do. Lie down on your back (you may want to put a cushion under your knees to make your back comfortable) and place one for the ducks on your tummy.
- Using the tummy breathing technique above show your child how you can make the duck on your tummy go up and down by only using your breath!
- Some children might find it useful to place their hands on your tummy so they can feel it go up and down. This is also a lovely ‘bonding’ experience for both of you.
- Then guide your child to lie down with you and place the other toy duck or a toy on their tummy. Encourage your child to try and make their duck ‘bob up and down’ on their tummy by taking deeper breaths. Watch your child’s breathing to check that:
- As they breathe IN their tummy is moving UPWARDS and OUTWARDS – so they are lifting their duck up with their tummy.
- As they breathe OUT their tummy moves inwards and downwards – so letting their duck fall.
- If your child is doing the movements the other way round i.e. as they breathe in they suck their tummy in – gently try to correct them.
Progressions for Tummy BreathingIf your child is older they may want to have a go at tummy breathing whilst sitting up or standing so that they can use this kind of breathing to calmed themselves when they are feeling a anxious or stressed. Below is an exercise your child can practise so they tummy breathe whilst sitting.
Balloon Breathing Technique for Children
- Find a supportive seat for your child, ideally one with arms, and encourage them to sit up as straight as they can.
- Guide your child to:
- Put both their hands on their tummy.
- Then to keep their mouth closed and take a slow breath in through their nose.
- Tell your child to imagine, as they breathe in, that there is a balloon in their tummy and they are trying to fill it up with air.
- Encourage your child to keep breathing in until they think the balloon in their tummy has enough air inside! Don’t encourage your child to breathe in too much as they may then find it hard to stay relaxed. Your child should be feeling their hands on their tummy are moving outwards – point this out to them.
- When your child feels their ‘tummy balloon’ is full of air encourage them to imagine they have let go of the balloon, and the air is rushing out! Guide your child to breathe out slowly through their mouth (with pursed lips). They should no feel their hands on their tummy are coming back towards their body. Guide your child to do 4-5 breaths like this then to breathe normally.
Benefits of Tatty Bumpkin’s Tummy Breathing for You and Your Child
Why Tummy Breathing is Good for You - the Adult
Abdominal breathing, as described above, is the most efficient and relaxed way of getting air into your lungs.This type of breathing has two important effects on the body:
- It is in itself relaxing compared to the ‘emergency mode’ breathing of the upper chest, which is an integral part of ‘fight or flight’ response to a stressful situation.
- It is typical of the regenerating processes such as when you are asleep, digesting food or the body is at peace.
Why Tummy Breathing is Good for Your Child
Abdominal breathing activities can help your child to:1. Increase their awareness of their breath and its effect on their body
When your child takes deeper breaths, their breathing and heart rate will become slower and this in turn will help your child to calm down. Tummy breathing is a great skill to learn at a young age as it becomes harder to co-ordinate this movement as we get older.
2. Improve their movement skills
Interestingly, the way we breath also effects how we move as adults -see http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3924606/
3. Enhance their self-regulation and executive functioning skillsWhen your child is able to use breathing activities to control their physical state, they can then use breathing techniques to regulate their social and emotional behaviour. Breathing techniques can help them to cope with such challenges as change, sharing and waiting. In turn breathing exercises will promote your child's executive functioning skills - all part of self-regulation. Good executive functioning includes the ability to: keep a goal in mind, control impulses and think flexibly for problem solving. http://move-with-me.com/self-regulation/2-breathing-exercises-to-support-executive-function/
4. Learn the skill of ‘relaxation’
It is never too early for your child to become more aware of how their body feels when they are ‘quiet’ for a while. When we relax we often find it easier to think – it is the same for your child. Perhaps encourage them to think back on their day and what they have done or maybe what they would like to do. Reflection & thinking time is vital for learning & helps develop an imaginative & creative mind. Your child will start to think not just ‘what is’ but ‘what if?!’ Leaders, artists & entrepreneurs all think creatively.
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